No one would ever have to say they deserve better if they understood that beginning better is within themselves.
Saying I deserve better sounds great, but how can we get better when we have no clue what better can be for us.
The searching process of getting better begins with us, but a lot of us believe when we say we want better for ourselves, it means that our better should come from someone because we always rely on someone for everything that has to do with emotions.
Honestly, better does not happen overnight; we have to go through a strict checklist of things that would help us deserve better. Searching for in my 40s has led me to understand that it starts with me and ends with me.
Better I now and forever is being able to live for myself and understand that the world is going to have an opinion on everything the job I have is to live my life.
The other part of me deserving better is being strong enough to be selfish with myself and my time.
Deserving better is understanding that I win every moment I wake up because I have been blessed with another day.
Deserving better is understanding that as long as we don’t give our power away, no one can or should break who we are.
Ms. Butterfly Genesis
The Memoir Of Ms. Butterfly 