Tag: discovering

SHOULD PEOPLE BE ABLE TO MAKE THEIR OWN RULES?

THE OLD SAYING HAS ALWAYS BEEN IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO DO ANYTHING WE WANT TO DO IN LIFE AS LONG AS WE HAVE THE DRIVE TO SEE IT THROUGH.

WHAT I’M ASKING IS, DOES THE SAME RULE APPLY WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE?

I’m STRONG, BELIEVE IN WRITING MY OWN RULES WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE WHAT MIGHT WORK FOR ME AND MY PERSON MIGHT NOT WORK FOR OTHERS.

NOT TWO PEOPLE ARE THE SAME, SO NOTHING IN LIFE SHOULD BE APPROACHED THE SAME WAY FOR THOSE TWO PEOPLE.

IF WE CAN SET OUR OWN RULES, WE CAN LEARN SO MUCH ABOUT OURSELVES AS INDIVIDUALS, AND IT CAN HELP US FIGURE OUT WHO WE ARE AS A COUPLE.

MOST IMPORTANTLY, IT WILL HELP US FIGURE OUT WHAT WE WANT FROM EACH OTHER AS A COUPLE.

SHOULD WE SET OUR OWN RULES?

MS. BUTTERFLY GENESIS

October 26, 2022

discovering, Love, understanding, unknown, Willings
HIM

A day full of anticipation.
Nervous.
Excitement but confusion because we need to think of anyone or anything else but the moment we shared.
They might’ve been selfish on both parts, but it was something that needed to happen because we both had to become one, at least for that moment in time.
The most devastating part for me was knowing and understanding that it was just a moment in time that we may not share again because of circumstances and in life.
The most amazing part for me was he was always able to see me beyond the chair and make me feel like that woman that has nothing wrong with her beyond what the world tries to make her feel like about herself.

His actions speak louder than any words his mouth could ever talk to her. His actions mean more to her than anything else because, with his actions, the world doesn’t seem like such a horrible place.

Ms. Butterfly Genesis

September 29, 2022

discovering, Love, passion, Time
Complete incomplete chapters

Books are full of chapters; some are more interesting than others, making some books difficult to put down.

Eventually, we will have to find a way to put the book down because those chapters that we see as so interesting will end.

The most exciting thing about ending chapters or just the book, in general, is knowing that I have been able to see something all the way throws.

It gives me room and space to start something new without feeling guilty about leaving some chapter half-assed.

Ms. Butterfly Genesis

April 27, 2022

Chapter, closing, Difficulties, discovering, ending, exploring, How?, indifferences, reading, TORN
Vague

I did not have to look back.

I want to look back because I felt I could get that incomplete off my heart, and all I believe I received was a sense of a stupid woman.

Stupid woman because I choose to feel inadequate about holding on to the vague feeling over what was once my marriage.

Now that I have realized that feeling of incompletion is or was going to be a part of my life, I need to find peace within myself and understand that everything doesn’t need to be complete.

I will never fix my past, but I can grant myself a fantastic future.

The only way I can have a future with myself is when I begin to forgive myself for all my bad behavior and not accept myself just the way I am.

If I’m going to be my authentic self, I have to let go of being perfect for the world. When being perfect is not being genuine.

Ms. Butterfly Genesis

January 13, 2022

Ability, accountability, Challenging, discovering, divorce, incomplete, Marriage, Strength, Wow
Can’t

We love to play the blame a lot of time when we say that people stand in our way to get where we went to be.

It might be true in many cases, but in many more cases, it is just predictive of our failure Before we try to succeed or fail.

By using the word, the can’t way before saying I can to my future.

When we use the word, we can open our worlds to endless possibilities of the things that, in many ways, people see as impossible, but we see as possible because we are using the word we can instead of can’t.

Ms. Butterfly Genesis 🇩🇴

October 2, 2021

Challenge, discovering, importantly, Impossible, Learning, obstacles, possibilities
Who’s at Fault?

Sit up that is the story of my life, right.

I understand that everyone is nervous because to have any part of your body split open is no joke.

I know how dangerous things are, but I’m fucking tired of hearing if you would have done this or that you wouldn’t be going through this.

I was born with cerebral palsy; it’s not something someone can catch.

One of the things I’m sure of is my body changes along with my disability.

No matter what I would have done, like sitting up straight, I still would have found myself with some severe back issues because I’m spending more than 18 hours a day in my wheelchair.

I take responsibility for my doing when it comes to my body.

I’m not trying to make excuses for myself.

I should have done better when it came to my body.

Maybe I should have tried to sit up straight, but the people around me will take responsibility for their part of my body falling apart.
Sit up straight.
Do this, do that.
These are things I heard all the time.
On the other side, I hear.
I am tired of helping you.
Why can’t you do this by yourself?
You should have just died, or maybe I should so you can value the things I do for you.
My body is messed up from lifting you for the last 35 years of life.
You are never going to understand how valuable I” m in your life until I’m gone.
Those are the words that I hear in my ears every day.
Take responsibility for making me feel like shit & invisible.
Like I should no longer be here.
I was hoping you could take responsibility for giving me life & me not asking for life to choose life, not me.
The blame game and guilt trip are over because I will not allow you to make me feel like it was my choice to live or die, and I chose to live to fuck up the rest of your youth.
Ms. Butterfly Genesis

August 28, 2021

changing, discovering, Learning, processing
Independence

Everyone with a disability looks for independence in many different ways.
One way I am looking for my freedom is by having my place where I can call home.
It’s hard for someone with a disability to find a place to call home because many apartments are not build up for people with different abilities.

That shows how little we matter to a world that doesn’t work except indifference from others.
No matter what the world feels or thinks, we belong just like everyone else.

Many people might think, why would you want to live on your own if you need so much help, but why wouldn’t you? I deserve the chance that everyone gets as they get older; they want to leave the nest, and I’m almost 40, so it’s time.
To leave the nest & discover newfound freedom for me.

My chair should not define my independence; I should do what my heart desires as long as I want for myself.

Ms. Butterfly Genesis

August 19, 2021

belong, discovering, do it, freedom, knowing, knowledge, Stop
Tough Ties

Our relationship has become like an ocean filled with weaves that keep going up and down.
She got herself pinned against some rocks hoping to try to find a way to unpin herself, but how can she free herself?
How can she attach her heart to any of these weaves that have her pinned against these rocks?
The ruff weaves are hurting my heart, and she needs to break from these robust ties.
Every relationship will have some robust ties, but the real strength behind every sturdy link is how we can get through these ties together.
If we can’t make it together, she wants to break free without too much of a damaged heart.

Ms. Butterfly Genesis

August 16, 2021

Build up, Couples, discovering, explore, free, learn, Love me, Strength