The Becoming Of Ms. Butterfly Genesis

Real life. Real growth. Real becoming

Ms. Butterfly 🦋

  • Educated

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    Teachable moments happen every day, and it’s up to us if we accept them at teachable moments in our lives.…

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  • won’t

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    It’s not that I can’t stop speaking to him. It’s more about how I feel when I don’t talk to…

    ≻: won’t
  • Grateful

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    There are many things I am grateful for one of the main things I’m thankful for is my family; even…

    ≻: Grateful
  • Breathe

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    I breathe to stay alive.Every breath I take comes with unbearable pain, not only because my body is breaking down…

    ≻: Breathe
  • The One

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    I need to love myself a little bit more. But, I can only do that by realizing that I need…

    ≻: The One
  • Open Mouth

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    Writing has always been therapeutic because I can talk myself through my words, feelings, and emotions.  There’s another way I’ve…

    ≻: Open Mouth
  • Gift Or Plan

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    God has a plan for everyone who enters the world. However, I have never been quite sure what his goal…

    ≻: Gift Or Plan
  • Self-love

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    Self-love is essential because the only way we can learn about self-respect. Rejection is a part of life, and as…

    ≻: Self-love
  • My love lettler

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    I have no clue why I decided on 11/16/21 to write him a love letter, but I am guessing there…

    ≻: My love lettler
  • Forever

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    Now that I no longer have you, I wish I could have used my time the right way.At this point,…

    ≻: Forever
  • Under Construction

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    I am not the best writer in the world, and I’m not trying to be. When I decided to pick…

    ≻: Under Construction
  • Million

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    My heart is in a million pieces, but it’s no one else fault but my own.I need to detach my…

    ≻: Million
  • In Love

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    I’ve always been the first to apologize for how my heart feels. But there’s nothing to apologize for this time…

    ≻: In Love
  • priority

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    If I were his priority, I would be his first thought in the morning his last view at night. If…

    ≻: priority
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    If I were his priority, I would be his first thought in the morning his last view at night. If…

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  • Death

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    It troubles my soul when people tell me that there’s a part of life like I don’t know how the…

    ≻: Death
  • Bipolar

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    Call me bipolar because my emotions have a way of going up and down, or sometimes I find ways of…

    ≻: Bipolar
  • Coming into your own

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    No one would ever have to say they deserve better if they understood that beginning better is within themselves.Saying I…

    ≻: Coming into your own
  • The biggest lie I told

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    I’m good.I’m OK.I”m fine.I am happy.A smile so no one wonders about my unwanted tears in my eyes constantly crying…

    ≻: The biggest lie I told
  • You should be Here

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    I miss you.I’m jealous that I can’t see you or touch you.I wish you were here so I could share…

    ≻: You should be Here
  • Diamond

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    It’s easier to give in to those things that come more accessible than work for the things we want.Personally feel…

    ≻: Diamond
  • One Mother

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    I did not understand your value as a person and mother until I no longer had you to fight with…

    ≻: One Mother
  • Can’t

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    We love to play the blame a lot of time when we say that people stand in our way to…

    ≻: Can’t
  • I should be

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    I should not be just an option.I should be that first choice.I should be your first thought in the morning.I…

    ≻: I should be
  • Starting Over

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    Life is about up and down. Sometimes the ups and downs we go through in life scare us from the…

    ≻: Starting Over
  • What if’

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    When we live for what other people might say, we are not truly living for ourselves.  Other people’s what-ifs are…

    ≻: What if’
  • SoUls in TwinE

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     She is trying to find the answers to many unanswered questions, but she doesn’t know where to begin or where…

    ≻: SoUls in TwinE
  • Duo

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    opening  accepting  acknowledging  allowing possibilities Endless  It’s a significant transition for me to think about these words when it comes…

    ≻: Duo
  • 40th the Milestone

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    Turning 40 is the newest milestone in my life. It’s a milestone I never thought I would see because I…

    ≻: 40th the Milestone
  • A Woman

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    A woman is not a toy; she is a gift.A woman is not a game; she is a blessing.A woman…

    ≻: A Woman
  • Self-motivation

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    We have to be our cheerleaders in life.Yes, it is excellent when people support us in any way possible, but…

    ≻: Self-motivation
  • Businesswoman

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    In a world dominated by men, it’s difficult for a woman to be seen as more than just a housewife.We…

    ≻: Businesswoman
  • Trying Times

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    If the layers of my skin are the only thing people can force on, then it’s a strong possibility that…

    ≻: Trying Times
  • woman

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    Mother’sDaughtersSisters Women have always felt like we should be seen but never heard because this is a man’s world. As…

    ≻: woman
  • Value

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    The word value is a strong word. When I think of the word value, I can’t help but also of…

    ≻: Value
  • Power

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    Don’t blame anyone for not reach your goal.Anytime you blame someone for your failure, you become powerless, don’t become Powerless…

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  • Rock Bottom

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    It’s true what people say, everything in life happens for a reason & we must hit rock bottom before we…

    ≻: Rock Bottom
  • Body image

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    I have no control over my body because my disability does not allow my ability to shine through. Other people…

    ≻: Body image
  • A part

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    I don’t want to look back because that might be blurring my future.I don’t want to look back because I…

    ≻: A part
  • Believe

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    Believe in you will achieve is a great quote that everyone should live by.Instead, we continuously listen to those who…

    ≻: Believe
  • Right

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    Right place.Right person because they can make you feel butterflies.It’s just like wow, but sometimes we need more than just…

    ≻: Right
  • I don’t

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    I don’t know how to reach out to him without making him feel like I’m pushing.I don’t know how to…

    ≻: I don’t
  • Clarity

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    Broken glasses finally help me see what I could not see before because anytime I look at the people around…

    ≻: Clarity
  • Becoming Myself

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    Is knowing who I am.I am not caring what anybody thinks about me because I refuse to live for anyone…

    ≻: Becoming Myself
  • Trapped

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    She is captive in the mold. Hoping to one day break free and reclaim what she knew one day was…

    ≻: Trapped
  • Roles

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    I wear many hats.I wear the hat of being a daughter.I wear the hat of being a sister.I wear the…

    ≻: Roles
  • Women’s international day

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    Women are amazing creatures.Powerful.Givers of life.Mother’snurturersBusinesswomen and entrepreneurs.Go, Geter.Smart.Beautiful.As women for many years, we’ve been told that we should only…

    ≻: Women’s international day
  • Better Version

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    I want to be a better version of myself for myself and no one else.I can become a better version…

    ≻: Better Version
  • Whatever will be will be

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    Whatever will be will be.Things happen with a purpose and a reason, but we don’t have to know why things…

    ≻: Whatever will be will be
  • Choosing myself

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    I choose myself.If I don’t have the strength to choose myself, how else can I expect anyone to choose me?…

    ≻: Choosing myself
  • The Reality

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    No one ever has to agree on how I feel, but the way I feel is like I am just…

    ≻: The Reality
  • Therapy

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    BrokenDamagedI am left questioning my purpose or why I decided to share my thoughts with the world.I feel like I…

    ≻: Therapy
  • My Worth

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    Society has no problems putting disabled people in a box because the community we are worthless and lazy, but that…

    ≻: My Worth
  • Happy Heavenly Birthday

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    I spoke to you that morning that God decided to call you home. No clue that would be our last…

    ≻: Happy Heavenly Birthday
  • The last I love you

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    A mother is the real backbone of the family. When anyone loses a mother, it’s like losing a nurturing teacher,…

    ≻: The last I love you
  • Bright light

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    The bright light she is makes today not so much a nightmare but a true shining light.The light that gives…

    ≻: Bright light
  • My guardian angel

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    A year has come and passed; it’s unbelievable that a year ago, we all surrounded your bed, hoping that you…

    ≻: My guardian angel
  • A True Angel

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    You have been gone for six months & it’s very untrue that I could not see you for mother’s day…

    ≻: A True Angel
  • One month Anniversary

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    One month’s anniversary is here, and it still feels unrealistic when mom came home from the hospital and sat next…

    ≻: One month Anniversary
  • CALLED TO HEAVEN

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    Heaven must be the most peaceful place. That’s why you probably answered your calling when it was time, and you…

    ≻: CALLED TO HEAVEN
  • Finally Goodbye

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    No one should be able to say goodbye because goodbye is such a final word.Everyone who once loved her was…

    ≻: Finally Goodbye
  • Happy 90th Birthday

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    August 4 would have been your 90th that we would have been more than willing to celebrate just to her…

    ≻: Happy 90th Birthday
  • Unbearable

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    When I write, people must know about me because I speak about things I’ve gone through and have conversations with…

    ≻: Unbearable
  • Extend

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    She extends herself with kindness.She extends herself with love.She extends herself by being that backbone none ever is to him.How…

    ≻: Extend
  • Bosses

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    I’m always up, so super late because I still feel the best time to connect with myself and things I…

    ≻: Bosses
  • What is normal?

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    ANYTIME PEOPLE TALK ABOUT HAVING A NORMAL LIFE, I QUESTION MYSELF ON WHAT DOES HAVING A NORMAL LIFE MEANS.DOES IT…

    ≻: What is normal?
  • Who’s at Fault?

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    Sit up that is the story of my life, right. I understand that everyone is nervous because to have any…

    ≻: Who’s at Fault?
  • My wheelchair isn’t A Stop Sign.

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    Whenever I see my wheelchair, I see an accessory that I’m an honor to show off. From this day forward,…

    ≻: My wheelchair isn’t A Stop Sign.
  • Not me

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    Victim, I am not. Yes, I have a disability, but I am not my disability. If I get scared unexceptionable,…

    ≻: Not me
  • No Picture

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    Cerebral palsy is not something I could never be embarrassed by; cerebral palsy is something that I have lived with…

    ≻: No Picture
  • Beyond disabilities

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    My physical disability is not something I’m trying to hide.My physical disability is not something I’m trying to hide or…

    ≻: Beyond disabilities
  • A woman on Wheels

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    Being a woman on wheels mean strength. Being a woman on wheels means knowledge, the ability to teach others that…

    ≻: A woman on Wheels
  • Desirable and disabled

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    Yes, I’m beautiful.Yes, I’m sexy.Being in a wheelchair leaves me Vulnerable for people to assume the most outrageous things about…

    ≻: Desirable and disabled
  • Moving

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    Moving forward is overcoming things that stand in our way. People that don’t leave the past in the past. My…

    ≻: Moving
  • Not existence

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    I don’t existMy mistakes overshadow my existence.As well as challenges my future.My future is bleak because I am not allowed…

    ≻: Not existence
  • Painting

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    No one ever has to agree on how I feel, but the way I feel is like I am just…

    ≻: Painting
  • Open Wounds

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    Open heart.Open wounds need to be closed, but no idea how to approach them. There’s not a Band-Aid big enough…

    ≻: Open Wounds
  • Sharing Myself

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    Things have gotten so far to come back. I wish I could share my feelings with the world to understand…

    ≻: Sharing Myself
  • International struggles

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    Trigger words for me are:You are starting to feel heavy.You are fat.You need to talk to someone who can help…

    ≻: International struggles
  • The Last

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    If we continuously chase the way to make others happy, we could never make ourselves happy.I am the type of…

    ≻: The Last
  • Questionable

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    I’ve gotten myself into situations that have made me question my faith in God. I don’t want anyone reading this…

    ≻: Questionable
  • My prayer for her

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    God, please wrap your arms around her and let her know that she’s not alone. God, I’m asking you from…

    ≻: My prayer for her
  • Chosen On

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    Children are a real blessing from God because God has chosen us to be his givers of life as a…

    ≻: Chosen On
  • Cancer

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    Cancer is a battlefield that no one believes they’re ever going to step on until one day they wake up…

    ≻: Cancer
  • I pray

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    I pray for myself and the ability not to lose who I have become, justbecause of the person I have…

    ≻: I pray
  • Sorry

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    Sorry is such an easy word to say.The world uses the word sorry as a band-aid to cover up wounds…

    ≻: Sorry
  • Nice Girl

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    I have always been a nice girl because I have a hard time saying no to people, and I find…

    ≻: Nice Girl
  • M.I.A.

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    I’m smiling because I refuse to show anyone my sadness to anyone.I smile because I’m tired of crying.I smile when…

    ≻: M.I.A.
  • Scars

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    Some people choose to run from their scars.I refuse to run from anything that shows that I made through a…

    ≻: Scars
  • Waiting

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    Patience has always driven me crazy and has never been part of my strong suit. Patience is something that I’ve…

    ≻: Waiting
  • Fight For Yourself

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    Fight with the person who will fight for you.Fight for the person who believes in something and makes it difficult…

    ≻: Fight For Yourself
  • Not Weak

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    She is not weak because she decides to stay.She stays to see him become the person he promised to be.Only…

    ≻: Not Weak
  • Pink Ribbon

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    The pink ribbon is a representation of the battle. That many women face today doesn’t matter the age, race, or…

    ≻: Pink Ribbon
  • Too much to say

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    Too much to say, but if I say anything, I’m wrong, and if I don’t say anything, I’m just a…

    ≻: Too much to say
  • Tunnel Of Light

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    The only way Positivity will come in my direction is when I learn how to ignore others’ negativity, including my…

    ≻: Tunnel Of Light
  • Let’s do it

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    I am a firm believer in speaking everything someone wants to do into existence.Suppose people want things to happen in…

    ≻: Let’s do it
  • Don’t

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    Don’t waste time fighting.Don’t waste time arguing.Don’t waste time trying to fix something or someone who is not fixable just…

    ≻: Don’t
  • Grateful

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    Why do we have to wait for a memorable holiday to be thankful?Anytime God blesses us with the ability or…

    ≻: Grateful
  • Impossible

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    I had to overcome being someone’s leftover by showing myself how much I am worth as a woman and putting…

    ≻: Impossible
  • Simple

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    A song brings a smile to my face.Past thoughts of you can make me uncontrollably or make me relive a…

    ≻: Simple
  • Expectations

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    He was the one person that gave her world because that’s what she meant to him.So he poured everything he…

    ≻: Expectations
  • Don’t Speak

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    Don’t judge.Don’t point.Don’t speak.The only time people should speak on anything that has nothing to do with them is because…

    ≻: Don’t Speak
  • Cyberbullying

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    Social media has its good things as well as bad things. One of the good things about social media is…

    ≻: Cyberbullying
  • Help

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    Addictiondarknesslonelinesswithdrawn from the world.When things fall apart, so do you.Trying to speak, but no one is listening.Ashamed.I was embarrassed because…

    ≻: Help
  • Unsaid

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    I always believe in things that are better unsaid if no one has anything good to say. That’s why I…

    ≻: Unsaid
  • Irreparable

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    He pushed her into someone else arms.She finds those things that never came through him but someone else.She finds that…

    ≻: Irreparable
  • Unlike

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    BEING HUMAN DOES NOT MEAN WE SHOULD ALL LOOK ALIKE. BEING HUMAN DOESN’T MEAN; WE SHOULD NOT ALL BE THE…

    ≻: Unlike
  • Alone

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    I’m alone in more than one.I’m alone in the sense that I feel crazy trapped in my feels.Anytime I open…

    ≻: Alone
  • Invisible

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    InvisibleunseenunwantedunexpectedunspokenunheardunlovedundesirablemisunderstoodThese are all the walls that help me build up the many barriers that hold me up, but I’m hoping…

    ≻: Invisible
  • Painful

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    Besides all the pain that my heart is feeling, I feel more alone with each day that keeps passing me…

    ≻: Painful
  • Transparencia

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    If we try to live as transparent as possible, we must understand what transparency is all about; what other things…

    ≻: Transparencia
  • Whole Again

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    It’s natural to break someone’s heart.The challenging part of dealing with someone who has been torn apart is knowing that…

    ≻: Whole Again
  • Broken Wings

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    TODAY IS ABOUT LOVE, BUT IN THE FORM OF A BUTTERFLY, THE BUTTERFLY IS A BEAUTIFUL CREATURE OF GOD BEYOND…

    ≻: Broken Wings
  • Shattered

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    Broken Shattered Blinded by what she thought was love but turned out to be a reality that she had lived…

    ≻: Shattered
  • Overdose

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    I finally did to myself; my life has ended; I’ve overdosed. No, not on coke, crack, or even ecstasy. I…

    ≻: Overdose
  • What is she doing here?

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    The visit was not about jumping into bed with him. It was about pure desire out of feeling wanted about…

    ≻: What is she doing here?
  • Eleven years ago

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    Cleaning leads us to find things that we probably never thought of finding until I found myself cleaning. It took…

    ≻: Eleven years ago
  • YES

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    I said yes, I do, and by doing so, I’m ready to start the newest chapter in our lives.Some people…

    ≻: YES
  • Stand in our Truth

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    How can you sleep with yourself or live with who you are as a person?Living in one truth and be…

    ≻: Stand in our Truth
  • UNSPOKEN

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    I don’t mind when people find themselves talking about me and the kind of person I am because people don’t…

    ≻: UNSPOKEN
  • Forever

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    Picturing forever is hard work that comes with that forever.That forever begins the day both parties say I do.When they…

    ≻: Forever
  • Blackjack

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    She played into his hands like a game of blackjack. She was desperate to know if he would not be…

    ≻: Blackjack
  • vows

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    I can’t say I know you.You can’t say you know me either, but I pray that with this new journey…

    ≻: vows
  • Thirteen years ago

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    Thirteen years later, still running through hoops and chains just to be seen acknowledge by someone who has no idea…

    ≻: Thirteen years ago
  • Finalizing

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    7 PM in my bed watching a movie million and one thought running through my head.I can’t make sense of…

    ≻: Finalizing
  • Wife

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    How does she go from feeling like his wife to feeling like the other women? When it comes to staying…

    ≻: Wife
  • Home

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    Anytime things get tough, she finds herself contemplating when things were pretty not smooth but smooth enough to make her…

    ≻: Home
  • He Knows

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    He knows me better than I know myself.He can finish my sentences before I can spend thinking about what I’m…

    ≻: He Knows
  • Trust

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    A piece of paper is just a piece of paper with no words, but anytime I find myself with a…

    ≻: Trust
  • Lifetime

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    A lifetime is simple forever.A lifetime is a chance to grow together. Also, understand that it’s okay to be our…

    ≻: Lifetime
  • Building Steps

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    When building relationships, there are steps to follow:Such as let’s start as friends.Let’s be transparent as we can be. I…

    ≻: Building Steps
  • What hurts the most

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    What hurts the most is a title to one of my favorite songs. That song has always brought me to…

    ≻: What hurts the most
  • Best Friends

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    She falls in love with her best friend.Friendship without expecting anything in return made that much easier for them to…

    ≻: Best Friends
  • Friendship Role

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    It hurts to be the bigger person, but it needs to be done, especially if I want his friendship.Friendship is…

    ≻: Friendship Role
  • Breakup

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    Breakups are unavoidable. We need some pain so we can build ourselves into better people. When it comes to matters…

    ≻: Breakup
  • Not looking back

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    I don’t want to look back because that might be blurring my future.I don’t want to look back because I…

    ≻: Not looking back
  • Future

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    I don’t know if we will ever get things on track. Getting things on track is letting go of the…

    ≻: Future
  • Close the door

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    Close the door before allowing another door to open. Closing the door on something like your past makes sure that…

    ≻: Close the door
  • Taught Me

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    Anytime a relationship comes to an end, it’s difficult for both parties involved. When both parties understand everything they have…

    ≻: Taught Me
  • Clock Out

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    Feeling wrong about what anyone has to say about me should no longer make me feel bad about myself since…

    ≻: Clock Out
  • I saw what I wanted to see

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    I felt things that I never thought I could feel again.The best feeling I have been able to feel in…

    ≻: I saw what I wanted to see
  • Questioning Unknown

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    I’m not trying to question his motives, but I can’t help myself.Doubting myself in and doubting someone who wanted me…

    ≻: Questioning Unknown
  • Not Envy

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    Every pain is different.I’m in so much pain I can’t, and I won’t name it.Besides the pain, I feel right…

    ≻: Not Envy
  • Lost & Found

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    A bad day just because it was only one of those days.Then I believe god plackets my lost & found…

    ≻: Lost & Found
  • Quit

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    I never quit on you because quitting on you would have been like leaving myself.I have never been a quitter.I’m…

    ≻: Quit
  • Respect

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    She never thought she would lose people she thought were her friends over a man but the lack of respect…

    ≻: Respect
  • I’m not, but I’m so much more

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    I’m not smart enough for you.I’m not beautiful enough for you.I’m not even sexy enough for you.I’m not enough woman…

    ≻: I’m not, but I’m so much more
  • Breaking down

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    I have many walls that stop people from getting to know me or how I am feeling.Breaking down these walls…

    ≻: Breaking down
  • Cutting

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    Why keeping cutting myself? If all I do is cover my body with unnecessary scars, relieve the pain running through…

    ≻: Cutting
  • My Truth

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    THE GREAT THING ABOUT LOVING ONESELF IS ACCEPTING ALL THE GREAT THINGS & ALL NOT GREAT THINGS ABOUT WHO SOMEONE…

    ≻: My Truth