Real life. Real growth. Real becoming

Ms. Butterfly 🦋

43 Coming Soon

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Aug 27

I’m blessed that I am going to be blessed to see 43. It’s a blessing because I was not supposed…
≻: 43 Coming Soon
I am

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Jul 31

I am expecting too much from him.I am expecting too little from him.I am not expecting anything from you because…
≻: I am
Journey

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Jul 25

≻: Journey
Storm

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Jul 18

≻: Storm
Reconnection

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Jul 15

It’s remarkable how life can surprise us, isn’t it? Reconnecting with someone after years can be both exhilarating and nerve-wracking.…
≻: Reconnection
Waiting

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Jul 7

≻: Waiting
Internal

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Jul 2

Perfection is an elusive ideal, and real life is beautifully imperfect. Struggling with mental well-being is a common human experience,…
≻: Internal
Motherhood

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May 8

The journey of parenthood is indeed complex and deeply personal. It’s a path that often involves immense sacrifice and selflessness,…
≻: Motherhood
Brave

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May 2

≻: Brave
Home

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May 1

≻: Home
Unwritten

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Apr 23

Sometimes the words we need to say,Are the hardest ones to speak,For fear of pain that may relay,The memories that…
≻: Unwritten
Mabel INC

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Apr 21

Your journey with Ms. Butterfly Genesis sounds truly inspiring, and it’s wonderful to hear how you’ve channeled your blessings into…
≻: Mabel INC
Bond

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Mar 26

Ms. Butterfly Genesis
≻: Bond
Conflict

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Mar 20

Ms. Butterfly Genesis
≻: Conflict
I Rise

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Mar 17

Ms. Butterfly Genesis
≻: I Rise
resilience

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Mar 15

From the ashes of despair, a phoenix rises,A woman of strength, full of surprises.Broken, yes, but never defeated,With every fall,…
≻: resilience
Peace Of Light

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Mar 15

In the silence of our shared dreams,Where time stands still, or so it seems.Our forever was cut short too soon,Underneath…
≻: Peace Of Light
rediscover

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Mar 11

**I thought I could be his everything,** **On top of being his everything,** **I could be whatever I wanted to…
≻: rediscover
Happy international women’s Day

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Mar 8

Indeed, the role and perception of women have undergone significant changes over time. Historically, many societies had limited roles for…
≻: Happy international women’s Day
THANK YOU

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Mar 7

Congratulations on reaching 5000 K viewers on your blog! 🎉🎈 It’s an incredible achievement, and you should be proud of…
≻: THANK YOU
How do I know when it’s time to say goodbye?

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Mar 6

Saying goodbye is like unraveling a tightly woven tapestry. Each thread, each memory, clings to the fabric of our existence.…
≻: How do I know when it’s time to say goodbye?
Beauty isn’t everything

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Mar 5

Strength, indeed, is a remarkable form of beauty. It transcends mere appearances, reaching deep within the core of every woman.…
≻: Beauty isn’t everything
Eleven Years Ago

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Jan 31

ELEVEN YEARS LATER OMG, I HAVE SOMETHING TO HOLD THAT MAKES OUR DIVORCE REAl MENTALLY, I HAVE ALWAYS HAD AN…
≻: Eleven Years Ago
Happy 44th Heavenly Birthday

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Dec 7

Your birthday came and went, and I couldn’t even focus on writing you a simple post like I usually do on your birthday and…
≻: Happy 44th Heavenly Birthday
HANDS

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Dec 7

Hands Soft touch. Desire excitement. Chills down and up my spine, anticipating his next moves. Safety security that’s what his…
≻: HANDS
Preparing

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Nov 23

How do we ever prepare ourselves to say goodbye? Are we ever to say goodbye to anyone we care about?…
≻: Preparing
Where I Be…

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Nov 22

I find myself struggling where I am.I know where I see myself and where I should be.The part I struggle…
≻: Where I Be…
Prayer

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Nov 22

No one should have a specific reason to have a relationship with God. We should all want guidance and something…
≻: Prayer
Being Me

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Oct 6

For a long time, I thought that lying was the right thing to do, but self-consciously, I knew it was the wrong…
≻: Being Me
The only_One

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Sep 21

I had no idea the last time I heard his voice would be that final goodbye.Goodbye to him, and I…
≻: The only_One
Won’t let go

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Sep 21

I thought we were unbreakable because nothing could make it through steel.Whenever I think about us, I think of steel…
≻: Won’t let go
Two heart beat that became one

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Sep 12

I miss and love you more than anything.You should be so proud of me. I finally was able to tell…
≻: Two heart beat that became one
Chess

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Sep 10

I love who I am with him.I hate who I am without him, but I am better off knowing that…
≻: Chess
42nd Birthday (Blessing)

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Sep 10

What can I say? We made it 42 years together and many more to come; in our case, we had…
≻: 42nd Birthday (Blessing)
Not Ashame to ask for help

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Sep 1

Why is asking for help such a difficult thing for people to do? We hurt ourselves a lot more when…
≻: Not Ashame to ask for help
Stop being selfish and let’s be woman of power

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Aug 30

I was unsure if I would speak on this subject that’s going on on social media with Erica, Mena, and…
≻: Stop being selfish and let’s be woman of power
No filter

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Aug 2

When I decided to blog, I was leaving myself open to people’s opinions and criticism regarding the things I decided…
≻: No filter
Girl

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Jul 26

GIRL, WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO YOURSELF?MY RESPONSE IS SIMPLY WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU I’M IN LOVE WITH HIM.YOU…
≻: Girl
Challenges

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Jun 22

Close one door before opening another door. I am trapped in a doorway I have tried to close for many…
≻: Challenges
Pride

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Jun 22

It’s a shame that it’s 2023, and we’re still fighting for equality to love who we want, not who society…
≻: Pride
Happy Father’s Day

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Jun 18

Being a father is a tall drink of water that most men are not ready for. I believe the boys…
≻: Happy Father’s Day
Start

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May 25

Close one door before opening another door. I am trapped in a doorway I have tried to close for many…
≻: Start
Five Years

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Apr 24

FIVE YEARS HAVE GONE AND COME FASTER THAN I CAN WRAP MY HEAD AROUND THE PHONE CALL I RECEIVED TO…
≻: Five Years
Not Another Black Boy

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Apr 24

Another black 16-year-old young man was shot.When will we give our young youth a chance to have a future, no…
≻: Not Another Black Boy
I’m that Bitch

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Apr 8

Maybe I am a sensitive bitch when I know I shouldn’t be because I should be used to it, but…
≻: I’m that Bitch
Keep Our Children Save (Nashville)

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Mar 27

Children are true blessings that can change the world.Children have the best chance to teach people about love kinds accept…
≻: Keep Our Children Save (Nashville)
Birthdays

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Mar 24

Birthdays are a celebration of life and the person accomplishes, whether here or not.Birth is a true gift from god…
≻: Birthdays
Find It

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Mar 17

Summary This episode is also available as a blog post: http://msbutterfly081.blog/2022/11/21/find-it/ Transcription
≻: Find It
Empowerment

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Mar 16

I need to get something off my chest, and it’s essential. We always talk about women’s empowerment, but it’s so…
≻: Empowerment
Happy international woman’s day

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Mar 8

Every day should be a woman’s day.Women are the true meaning of strength, perseverance, and resilience. But unfortunately, for many…
≻: Happy international woman’s day
Cerebral Palsy

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Mar 7

March is the month of Cerebral palsy, and for those who don’t know what that means, I don’t look at…
≻: Cerebral Palsy
Enough

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Mar 6

I am enough. I did enough. I can let go. Ms. Butterfly Genesis
≻: Enough
Be Loud

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Mar 5

The only time the world can hear us is when we realize that our voices are the most vital tool…
≻: Be Loud
Above Water

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Mar 4

I need a voice of reason.I’m desperately crying out for one right now.Whoever chooses to be my voice of reason…
≻: Above Water
Do It

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Feb 28

I wish things could be different in my life. I need to stop wishing and start doing what I need…
≻: Do It
Every day is the day of love

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Feb 15

Valentine’s day is considered a special day because that is the day that you spend with someone extraordinary. So why…
≻: Every day is the day of love
My Person

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Feb 9

There is so much bullshit going on in the world beyond my heart.But I seriously can not help and feel…
≻: My Person
Under

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Feb 8

I don’t want to be stupid.For you to be successful, I have to have the strength to the door of…
≻: Under
Stupid in love

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Feb 7

Stupid, in loveHold on to a heart that doesn’t belong to me.They wondered why I couldn’t wash off the feelings…
≻: Stupid in love
Home

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Jan 24

Summary This episode is also available as a blog post: home-2/ Transcription
≻: Home
Falling

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Jan 11

It’s okay to break, especially when we can find the strength to put ourselves together. Finding those pieces to rebuild who…
≻: Falling
Bitch

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Jan 9

If l have time to bitch about what I no longer want to be for others. I should be able…
≻: Bitch
Against wanting

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Jan 9

To stop loving him, I need to use my heartlessness and allow my mind to take over. Even with all…
≻: Against wanting
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Dec 27

How are you creative? How am I creative? My creativity comes through paper and pen because that’s my way of…
≻: untitled post 5004
Social Media

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Dec 27

Social media is not accurate social media has become like a smoke and mirror of things. The people enjoy watching. As an influencer or…
≻: Social Media
Puzzle Of Mental Health

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Dec 24

Stephen Boss, a charismatic hip-hop dancer and television personality known as tWitch who rose to fame on the reality show…
≻: Puzzle Of Mental Health
Miss You (Happy Birthday sis law)

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Dec 5

On another birthday without her, people would think I would be over it & I would see her birthday as…
≻: Miss You (Happy Birthday sis law)
Gathering Who I am

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Dec 1

Broken Shattered In pieces Dragging myself so I can gather myself so can become whole again. Feeling whole again is…
≻: Gathering Who I am
Find It

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Nov 21

I lost myself while trying to please everyone in my life or around my life. The funny thing is that while…
≻: Find It
You

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Nov 21

Summary This episode is also available as a blog post: you Transcription
≻: You
shanquella Robinson (Friendship)

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Nov 20

Friends are hard to come by. When you have a group of men or women that we can call friends,…
≻: shanquella Robinson (Friendship)
AfterThought

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Nov 19

I constantly complain about how tired I’m of someone’s afterthoughts.I just came to a realization, and the first thing that…
≻: AfterThought
I am

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Nov 18

I am a working progress.I am enough.I am putting all the love I would pour into others just because I…
≻: I am
Home

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Nov 11

Home is comfy.`Home is safety.Home is love.Home understands that no matter how badly I could mess up, those arms will…
≻: Home
Cancer

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Oct 28

Cancer has many different faces. Cancer does not have a specific race it Chooses to attack. Cancer is not Forgiving…
≻: Cancer
SHOULD PEOPLE BE ABLE TO MAKE THEIR OWN RULES?

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Oct 26

THE OLD SAYING HAS ALWAYS BEEN IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO DO ANYTHING WE WANT TO DO IN LIFE AS…
≻: SHOULD PEOPLE BE ABLE TO MAKE THEIR OWN RULES?
You

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Oct 12

Be fearless.Be unapologetic.Be worthy. Be you. Ms. Butterfly Genesis
≻: You
Self-Caring

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Oct 4

As women, we are taught to be givers.Teachers of life.As women, we have the most satisfying job: the ability to…
≻: Self-Caring
HIM

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Sep 29

A day full of anticipation.Nervous.Excitement but confusion because we need to think of anyone or anything else but the moment…
≻: HIM
Voice

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Sep 26

I can’t be scared of who I am.I am not a superwoman, even though I love playing someone who can…
≻: Voice
Woman first

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Sep 21

My wheelchair is a part of my everyday life. But, unfortunately, it isn’t my whole life. First and foremost, I…
≻: Woman first
Impossible

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Aug 28

Everything this seems impossible is possible as long as this changes and growth.Nothing in life is impossible, but if we…
≻: Impossible
You

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Aug 27

Trace of me all over you is what I dream of & desire. Anytime I find myself with you, I…
≻: You
Insignificant

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Aug 1

She is insignificant.She is worthless.She has no value in my life.No matter what she tries, she will always fail simply…
≻: Insignificant
Lifetime

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Jul 30

A lifetime seems impossible even when feeling like we have the best base relationship. Even the best base can have…
≻: Lifetime
Please Me

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Jul 21

Please my mindPlease my soulPlease my heartAnd then you can please my body with the connection like no other of…
≻: Please Me
NOT A LIFESTYLE

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Jul 19

I might be broken for the moment. It doesn’t mean I should stay broken because they expect me to do…
≻: NOT A LIFESTYLE
Powerful

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Jul 18

Words only become powerful when we, as people, give them. As people, we have to know that we are the…
≻: Powerful
Rebuilding

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Jul 17

Sometimes we have to break to rebuild stronger. Stronger to fight for who is. Who we are is individuals that…
≻: Rebuilding
Won’t Let Go

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Jul 13

I need my best friend because I am about to fall apart. I want my best friend to catch me…
≻: Won’t Let Go
Souls

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Jul 13

We should never force pieces to fall into place.Pieces should fall into place naturally without someone forcing it.If we try…
≻: Souls
Prepare

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Jul 6

Damn, the worst thing anyone can hear is I must prepare myself to deal with her. So I want to…
≻: Prepare
Second & minutes

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Jul 1

Make sure that each moment we live has a purpose. Make sure that each moment matters and fulfills our soul.…
≻: Second & minutes
Above Water

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Jul 1

I saw another beautiful soul left this earth. Yes, I understood it was going to happen because that is the…
≻: Above Water
Be Pride

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Jun 25

Pride week is the celebration of equality, no judgment, and having the freedom to love whoever you desire to love.…
≻: Be Pride
Happy Father’s Day

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Jun 19

Happy Father’s Day to all the fantastic fathers worldwide and those wonderful mothers with no choice but to be both…
≻: Happy Father’s Day
Jump Off

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Jun 15

Yes, I am disabled, but I am a woman first. This means people in my life and those who have…
≻: Jump Off
Help Worldwide

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Jun 12

As I prepare to put together another gun violence article together, all I can think to myself is how can…
≻: Help Worldwide
Choices

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Jun 10

My heart is weighty simply because, as women, we take our abilities to have children for granted. The main reason…
≻: Choices
Safety Place

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Jun 10

I began my blog because I needed a safe space to express myself and my feelings without judgment. I’ve felt…
≻: Safety Place
School Shooting

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May 26

Another school shooting means we lose a considerable part of our future every time we lose our children to school…
≻: School Shooting
Happy Mother’s Day

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May 8

I’m not speaking from a mother’s perspective but a daughter’s perspective; why do mothers only deserve one day to be…
≻: Happy Mother’s Day
The First Man

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May 4

The first healthy relationship daughters must establish is with their fathers. Unfortunately, many fathers don’t understand the impact they create…
≻: The First Man
The Heartbeat

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Apr 29

The heartbeat inside me made me realize you were more accurate than anything else. You had no name, but I…
≻: The Heartbeat
Knife

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Apr 27

Don’t keep stabbing me with your words. I stab myself every day with the reminder of not having you a…
≻: Knife
Complete incomplete chapters

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Apr 27

Books are full of chapters; some are more interesting than others, making some books difficult to put down. Eventually, we…
≻: Complete incomplete chapters
Goodbye doesn’t exist

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Apr 23

Anytime I think about the last time you and I spoke anytime, I think about the last time you and…
≻: Goodbye doesn’t exist
Single

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Apr 18

I am single.I’m unavailable to the world because I am getting to know who I am without the definition of…
≻: Single
Find what makes us

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Apr 17

Sometimes in life, we let particular things in our own lives discourage us from what we want for ourselves.I know…
≻: Find what makes us
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Apr 15

Nothing I do with my life will ever make sense to anyone, and at this point in my life, I’m…
≻: untitled post 4385
Loop Off

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Apr 15

I find myself in the place where I’m asking myself where, when, and how I could end up here again.…
≻: Loop Off
Guilt Trip

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Apr 11

Family is supposed to mean unity but unity means different things to different families. My family is like a popularity…
≻: Guilt Trip
Try Me

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Apr 11

Try me in any way, and you’re going to find out who I am and what I’m capable of. Box…
≻: Try Me
Pay Off

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Apr 7

Anybody that has known me for a while has known that I’ve been through hell & back. Last few years…
≻: Pay Off
Useless

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Apr 3

I am not going to play the blame for the way I feel about the way I think of myself…
≻: Useless
Ms. Butterfly Genesis

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Apr 2

When I decided to brand myself as Ms. butterfly Genesis, it was not to change my identity because I’m still…
≻: Ms. Butterfly Genesis
Detox.

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Mar 30

Sometimes, to detox the negativity in our lives, we have to have the strength to realize that things or people…
≻: Detox.
Reaction

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Mar 28

Before I begin putting this piece together, I would love to start by saying I’m not attacking men for defending…
≻: Reaction
Reflection Time

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Mar 21

I have so many people in my life.I had hurt those who genuinely tried loving me for me when I…
≻: Reflection Time
Level

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Mar 21

I don’t know to feel today, but all I know is I feel like a ball of emotions. Today is…
≻: Level
Accessibility

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Mar 21

There are so many issues in this world, one of the main issues besides no jobs lack of homes for…
≻: Accessibility
Women’s Day

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Mar 8

BossesIntelligentIndependentStrongWarriorsSurvivorsFor many years women have been known to be the backbone of their familiesWomen are amazing. That’s why we should…
≻: Women’s Day
Mold

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Mar 4

Don’t change who you are for anyone. If you try to change for someone, they are not genuinely excepting you…
≻: Mold
One Whole

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Feb 28

When we get into relationships as women, we would love to believe that love should be enough to survive, and…
≻: One Whole
Forever

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Feb 21

I don’t want to see you. I don’t wish you harm. I thought we were going to be forever because…
≻: Forever
Don’t give up

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Feb 21

Rejection is a part of life. It’s a learning experience and makes you stronger to fight for what you want.…
≻: Don’t give up
Walk

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Feb 15

I’m so proud of myself.I just overcame a milestone.It’s not a secret that I struggle with being a people pleaser…
≻: Walk
Happy Valentine’s Day

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Feb 14

Happy Galentine day to all my beautiful single ladies.I’ve always been a firm believer in only using a particular day…
≻: Happy Valentine’s Day
Incomplete WOMAN

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Feb 6

If I am incomplete as a woman to myself, how can I pretend to be whole to the rest of…
≻: Incomplete WOMAN
Love is not a movie

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Feb 3

Love is not always what we are subject to when watching a love story in a movie. Love is about…
≻: Love is not a movie
Who am I to myself?

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Jan 28

Who am I to myself? It’s crazy that I know who I should be to everyone else in my life.…
≻: Who am I to myself?
Instrument

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Jan 24

Everyone is a voice. Everyone has a voice. Everyone has the right to use their voice, but people must understand…
≻: Instrument
Two years

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Jan 23

It’s been two years since the last time we said goodbye I have no idea what to say or how…
≻: Two years
Stop Hating

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Jan 17

People honor a man who died for change, and that has been some changes, but my opinion is the world…
≻: Stop Hating
Vague

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Jan 13

I did not have to look back. I want to look back because I felt I could get that incomplete…
≻: Vague
Unraveled

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Jan 11

Abandonment jealousy shadowbanned betrayal This-where I am mental; this is everything I feel when I hear the…
≻: Unraveled
Bold

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Jan 9

I have tried to be Bold but couldn’t be because I always worried about hurting someone’s feelings. All my life,…
≻: Bold
Stupid in Love

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Jan 7

I wouldn’t say I like the fact that he lives in me. I have yet to learn how to let…
≻: Stupid in Love
Tough Love

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Jan 6

Dear self you’re so good at giving everyone advice, but I don’t understand why it isn’t easy to take your…
≻: Tough Love
No Name

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Jan 5

FindingKnowingUnderstandingAcknowledgingPushing beyond all obstacles that say no while I say yes, I will.Yes, I will be true no matter who…
≻: No Name
Belittled

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Dec 30

I’ve said this in plenty of my other pieces. I am the type of person that needs to be liked…
≻: Belittled
Merry Christamas

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Dec 25

Christmas, I believe, has been very much commercialized. I also think that everyone has lost the true meaning of Christmas.…
≻: Merry Christamas
Not where I want to be

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Dec 20

I am mad at myself because I’m 40 years old disabled, and I still live with my mother. I’m at…
≻: Not where I want to be
Discrimation

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Dec 19

Disability is what I have, but it’s not who I am. It’s a shame that we are going into 2022,…
≻: Discrimation
The Light

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Dec 14

It’s incredible what happens between two people when there’s no real conversation. It’s taking me 14 to 15 years to…
≻: The Light
Myself Conversation

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Dec 12

I need to have this conversation because if I don’t, I will continue to feel like I’m losing my mind.…
≻: Myself Conversation
I am Happy

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Dec 10

If I am happy today, it has nothing to do with you. If you see me satisfied, leave me alone…
≻: I am Happy
Don’t stereotype

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Dec 10

I’m pissed off because I am a disabled woman. I’ve been disabled all my life, so it’s nothing new. However,…
≻: Don’t stereotype
Happy Heavenly Birthday (sis In-law

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Dec 5

It’s your birthday today. I know would like to be wishing you a happy birthday It’s been three years since…
≻: Happy Heavenly Birthday (sis In-law
Saint Jude (Home away from Home

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Dec 3

I thought this would be a simple piece for me to write because I’m so used to putting my feelings…
≻: Saint Jude (Home away from Home