I constantly complain about how tired I’m of someone’s afterthoughts.
I just came to a realization, and the first thing that slapped me in the face was that I needed to stop playing the blame and own my shit.
The shit I need to sit in; I become an afterthought to others because I have been an afterthought to people, in general, is a vital lesson.
The lesson is one day could learn how to put myself first without the guilt I feel whenever I try to put myself first.
Of course, what can I accept from other people if I am an afterthought to myself?
I am no longer going to be an afterthought to myself.
Ms. Butterfly Genesis
The Memoir Of Ms. Butterfly 