When we decide to make changes in our lives, we have to make sure we are doing it for the right reason, but most importantly, we are doing it for ourselves.
The change should only happen when we need to improve ourselves or see something we might not like ourselves.
We should never change who we are to fit someone’s mounding of who we should be for them. Compromising is a give-and-take situation.
If anyone has to change who they are, then the person they begin to love is not who indeed are, and if anyone is going to love me, they will need to love me for me and all my flaws.
When people can love me for who I am, that’s real love because love is unconditional love.
Ms. Butterfly Genesis
The Memoir Of Ms. Butterfly 