The Memoir Of Ms. Butterfly

I need to get something off my chest, and it’s essential. We always talk about women’s empowerment, but it’s so easy to break down a woman over any little thing, such as body shaming someone because they don’t fit someone’s stereotype is difficult to believe in women’s empowerment when you have celebrities and Women who choose to break down other women in the same industry as themselves to make themselves look good, or feel good about themselves.

If you’re going to try to break anyone down for any reason, you should turn the mirror on yourself and break yourself apart and see if you genuinely like who you are, as you’re hurting yourself apart.

You would probably figure out that you don’t like yourself because if you did, you would not have the time or the energy to break down another woman. Especially nowadays in 2023.

It’s already challenging for women to make a name for themselves, let alone stand with other women who feel they have the power to break others down. So why break another woman just because you’re hurt as a woman?

As I said, if you can’t break yourself down as a woman to see your flaws, another female has no right to breakdown down that female and expose her flaws.

As women, we get a lot of slack for being called petty and just straight-up bitches, instead of trying to uplift who we are as women and show the world that we deserve a spot in this world, not because we’re petty bitches. Still, we’re strong and stand up for something, which is what women’s empowerment is supposed to be about.

Don’t get me wrong, I won’t say that I don’t enjoy celebrity lives because that’s what I follow on my social media apps, and that’s what I report on. However, I hate when the same women who choose to break down other women speak on woman empowerment.

Instead of doing the truth of women’s empowerment, they instead take the lowest of women’s empowerment and prove to the world that women cannot get along or have the ability to uplift each other without being jealous.

I also understand that being 41, I shouldn’t look into a celebrities life and have them show me what women’s empowerment is being 41 and disabled. But I know what women’s empowerment is, and that’s not putting another woman down but trying to uplift, teach, and be there for one another, whether you like the person or not.

Just be there, and as women, we need to stop playing like we’re still in high school and realize that every single woman is different from each other, and we find ourselves in different stages in our lives. That at every single step that you might be at or I might be at, but that doesn’t mean that we have the right to put anyone down for whatever reason; uplifting is the key, and if no one understands, there’s no truth to woman’s empowerment.

Ms. Butterfly Genesis